Sunday, May 10, 2020

What actually love is??

What is love according to me....


There are different types of love, love between parents and their child between sibling, friends etc. But today I will share about what I think love is between a girl and a boy.

Well,  there is no proper defination of it. Everybody has a different opinion to it.
This is because every phase of our life teaches us a different lesson and hence along with it defination of love also changes.

When we were teenagers defination of love was fun having boyfriend or girlfriend was exciting and fun. We believed in happy endings. Then our first break up happens and everything changes. We feel devastating becomes vulnerable and thus defination of love changes. Now for us love is trust, respect or may be care.

Then after moving on we think of giving love an another chance and again the 2nd and 3rd heartbreak happens and we suddenly stopped believing in love and for us love does not exist.

The most interesting thing is what you know true love happens when we have the least expections of it.

In my entire life I have wondered what is love. It was the year 2017 when I finally got to know what is love and got a defination of it to myself.

After having couple of heartbreaks I was not expecting love to find my way. It was in the year 2017 I met him we got into a relationship after talking for almost 4 months. I could not believe for the first few days that this is actually happening that I have got the perfect and the best boyfriend in the world, so much of love was there. I used to pinch myself to check if it was a dream or real.

And that was the time when I finally got my own defination of what love is :- true love is not when your heart starts beating fast, or when suddenly you start to breathe fast or when your hand and legs shakes and you become speechless. It is when you feel calm, peaceful, relaxing and happy.

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